When we find ourselves in a midlife depression, and suddenly hate our spouse, our jobs, our lives – we can be sure that the unlived life is getting our attention. When we feel restless, bored, or empty, despite an outward life full of riches, the unlived life asks us to get involved. Not doing this work will leave us exhausted and discouraged, with a nagging sense of boredom or failure. As you may have already discovered, doing or acquiring more does not suppress your discomfort or dissatisfaction. Nor to "meditate on the light" or try to overcome the sufferings of earthly existence. Only awareness of the qualities of your shadow can help you find an appropriate place for your unredeemed darkness and thus create a more satisfying experience. Not to do this work is to remain stuck in loneliness, anxiety, and the dualistic boundaries of the ego, rather than awakening to your higher calling. Dr. Grandstaff will put you on the right path.
Stanley F.: Recovering Executive